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Vampires and Donors Guide to Negotiation

Posted: Sunday, 8 April, 2012 by deacongray in Uncategorized

Vampires and Donors Guide to Negotiations

In every relationship there is a process, a time period when we learn about each other and what the expectations both parties hold for the relationship. The process for Vampires and Donors is no different then any other relationship, yet there are some questions and issues that should be discussed between the vampire and donor that are a little more complex.

The intent of this essay is not to tell you how to regulate or order your relationship. The point is to present to you a guide. This guide is basically a series of concepts, suggestions, and questions that could be used to help ensure that both parties are fully informed, kept safe, understand the expectations of each other, and the requirements and limitations that each side holds to be imperative to a successful relationship even in the short term. It’s a negotiation guide if you will.

Part one: Meeting for the Negotiation (new contact)

Set an established date, time and public place for meeting
Ensure meeting place will be appropriate and consider secondary meeting place
Contact trusted friend and inform of meeting information
Take a friend if possible
Designate safe call
Ensure that meeting is not considered a “Date”, or “Going out” as not to set expectations. If a follow on time of getting to know each other is proposed ensure the above are considered
Designate if Alcohol is acceptable for meeting ( I suggest not to allow it)

Meeting for Negotiation (familiar contact)
Set date, time and place for meeting
Ensure the meeting place is comfortable for the subject topic.
Ensure that the meeting and reason for meeting is the only subject matter at hand as not to confuse the meetings intent.

Part Two: Medical aspects for consideration

Discuss Blood Born Pathogens and proper blood testing
Make information about proper testing available
Discuss Health issues:
Illness that could contribute to injury: anemia, Hemophilia, Diabetes ECT…
Talk about medications one might be taking like blood thinners
Consider any mental or emotional disorders, and the treatment utilized if any
Discuss any allergies one might possess that are pertinent like latex, Iodine or Shellfish.

(Note: It’s is important to be sure that you are made aware of any physical or mental issues that could result in harm to either party. Proper health screening and pathogen testing is highly recommended.)

Part Three: Discovery (Personal info that needs to be shared)

Have you ever been implicated in, wanted for, arrested for, or convicted of a crime
If yes what Crime and what was the circumstances
Is the person married
Is the spouse aware of the activities
Can the spouse be contacted
Is there anyone that can be asked about your reputation in the community

Part Four: Expectations

Is a purely Monogamous relationship expected
Is the relationship simply for donations
What behaviour is acceptable or not. (Like is it ok to have more then one donor, is it ok to have one donor and multiple lovers?
Will blood be stored
If stored is anyone else allowed to use it
What obligations are expected in the relationship?
What amount and how often are donations acceptable
Is there a mark or symbol of protection or responsibility
What information is considered confidential

Part Five: What Method to use

How will Psi feeding be conducted? (i.e.)
Physical contact
No physical contact
Astral connection

How is Blood Feeding to be conducted(i.e.)
Medical Blood Draw
Needle syringe
Sterile Knife

How is Eros Type feeding to be conducted (sexual vampire) (i.e.)
1. Flirting only
2. Light physical contact no direct intercourse
3. Heavy physical contact no direct intercourse
4. Direct Intercourse
5. Passive observation

Part Six: I.C.E. and Aftercare

Who should be contacted In Case of Emergency (I.C.E)
Alternate contact
What is the method of aftercare? (Is the person given a band aid and sent home? Are they bathed and massaged? Are they taken shopping or to a show…basically how do you ensure that after the donor has given you want you desire, that they are taken care of and looked after until they are home safely or in the hands of another, OR positive assurance can be given as to the over all well being.)

Part Seven: Final considerations

Where will the donation take place
Who will be there
What is the address (if unknown)
Who will know
When will it take place


The real goal of all of this is to ensure that both parties are protected and aware of exactly what is expected of them. With that in mind, happy hunting my friends.

Sexual Vampirism, Pranic Energy and Eros types

Posted: Sunday, 8 April, 2012 by deacongray in Uncategorized

Sexual Vampirism, Pranic Energy and Eros types
Deacon Gray 2007

Recently people have started asking me more and more about the terms that are involved in sexual vampirism.

Prana is one of five organs of…well look at this

“Prana (प्राण, prāṇa) is the Sanskrit for “breath” (from the root prā “to fill”, cognate to Latin plenus “full”). It is one of the five organs of vitality or sensation, viz. prana “breath”, vac “speech”, caksus “sight”, shrotra “hearing”, and manas “thought” (nose, mouth, eyes, ears and mind; ChUp. 2.7.1).

In Vedantic philosophy, it is the notion of a vital, life-sustaining force of living beings and vital energy, comparable to the Chinese notion of Qi. Prana is a central concept in Ayurveda and Yoga where it is believed to flow through a network of fine subtle channels called nadis. Its most subtle material form is the breath, but is also to be found in blood, and its most concentrated form is semen in men and vaginal fluid in women.[1] The Pranamaya-kosha is one of the five Koshas or “sheaths” of the Atman.

Prana was first expounded in the Upanishads, where it is part of the worldly, physical realm, sustaining the body and the mother of thought and thus also of the mind. Prana suffuses all living forms but is not itself the Atman or individual soul. In the Ayurveda, the Sun and sunshine are held to be a source of Prana.” -wiki

Plainly this has nothing really to do with sexual vampirism. Perhaps Spiritual feeding, PSI or even Energy feeding, but obviously not Sexual feeding right?

Well sort of. You see the first mistake is to presume that sexual feeding has to be classified between Biological feeding, and Pranic feeding. It doesn’t because Sexual feeders can feed in these ways, if that is the primary means of transmission of the sexual energy essence that they need. Yet it trying to break it down into these simple categories is much akin to telling someone that all there is to fine dining can be broken down into the words “Eating” or “Drinking”

While technically correct, it really doesn’t tell you anything.

Sexual Vampires can be broken down in many ways, but collectively they are referred too as Eros Types in polite conversation, as not to mislead people as to the nature of the individual. Simply because one is a “sexual vampire” does not mean that they have to, or ever do have sex with those of whom they draw energy.

While they are collectively broken down into five basic archetypes, nothing in human nature is ever that simple. One can feed in various ways, while possessing a primary type. One might be a Satyr-nymph ( forever seeking and enticing with sexual desire, but never finding fulfillment) but also able to feed like a Siren, drawing peoples desires toward them even if the end result can be destructive.

“Pranic feeding” like “Eros Types” are both collective terms, Pranic feeding covers all feeding types that are not biological in nature. “Eros type” is all about Sexual feeding that also includes biological feeding.

Typically speaking, as sexual vampirism is an emerging field of focus, there are a lot of different concepts out there currently. Yet nearly none of them truly seek to understand the real feeding style of a sexual feeder, instead they simply try to tag it with a label, even if, like “Pranic feeding” Or Tantric Vampirism the term clearly doesn’t fit. Often this is due to the writers simply not being a sexual vampire themselves. Or simply trying to put too much focus on a name to make the act seem more metephysical.